David C. Hughes, Writer

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Motivation and the Writing Life (Part 5 of 8)

PERSISTENCE AND DETERMINATION ALONE ARE OMNIPOTENT

In the Bible, Jesus told the following story of the persistent widow: “In a certain town there was a judge who neither feared God nor cared what people thought. And there was a widow in that town who kept coming to him with the plea, ‘Grant me justice against my adversary.’

“For some time he refused. But finally he said to himself, ‘Even though I don’t fear God or care what people think, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won’t eventually come and attack me!’” (Luke 18:2-5 NIV®).

Calvin Coolidge, the 30th president of the United States, once said during a memorial speech, “Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan ‘press on’ has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.”[i] If you keep at this craft, if you answer the muse, satisfy the craving, whisper, cajole, and scream at the world on paper and online, and if you keep doing it over and over despite the rejections, despite the failures, despite the slow days, despite your fears and disbeliefs, despite yourself, you will succeed. Believe me. You may be your biggest critic, but you can also be your number one fan.

Now, you may have to change your definition of success. What do you want? To be a best-selling novelist? What if you don’t achieve that? Is your life a failure? I once saw a coffee cup proclaiming, “There’s no such thing as failure, only different degrees of success.” As Norman Vincent Peale said in his book The Power of Positive Thinking, “Set your goals, then aim ten percent higher.” But if you don’t hit your goals, so what? How’s that Ralph Waldo Emerson quote go? “Life is a journey, not a destination.” Each day is precious—live each one to the fullest on this journey to who we are. As Confuscious said, “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Take your step today, and don’t stop until you draw your last breath—then become a human interest blogger in heaven! Who said your career had to end when you hit the grave?

Years ago I was inspired by two gentlemen who spoke at a Freelance Writers Network meeting in Fort Worth. John Posey, editor and publisher of The African American Literary Review at the time, had been writing seriously and steadily for only four years. In addition to his successful magazine, he’d had numerous book reviews and articles published, and was working on a play. Dan McGraw, an associate editor for U.S. News and World Report at the time, had been writing for only three years. Prior to that he was a cab driver in Cleveland, and it had taken him two months to write his first 800-word story.

The day I listened to both of those guys speak, back in 1995 at the age of 31, I’d already been writing for eighteen years, since age 13. By 1995 I’d sold nine articles, I was writing a monthly newsletter column, I’d won two short story contests, and I’d co-written, illustrated and self-published You Might be a Writer, and had been asked by two agents and an editor to submit book proposals for both my novel and my non-fiction book. Since then I’ve established a blog, written and published two books, and am currently working on six more. At the same time.

What if I’d have listened to the world and had given up? I’d never know what I could have done, or how far my writing career could have gone. Og Mandino, in his book The Greatest Salesman in the World, said, “The prizes of life are at the end of each journey, not near the beginning; and it is not given to me to know how many steps are necessary in order to reach my goal. Failure I may still encounter at the thousandth step, yet success hides behind the next bend in the road. Never will I know how close it lies unless I turn the corner.” I don’t know about you, but I’m going to keep taking those steps, turning those corners, even if they lead directly into a brick wall. Someone may come along and give me a boost over it.

[i] http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Calvin_Coolidge

(Next up: The Myth of Writers Block)

Copyright ©2014 by David C. Hughes

Motivation and the Writing Life (Part 4 of 8)

FEAR IS THE MIND KILLER

So what holds you back? What are you afraid of? People are creatures of habit, slaves of fear. If we allow it, fear can and will rule over us, keeping us from breaking out of our comfort zones. If we venture too far into the realization of our dreams, fear will jump into our paths, growl at us, and bare its sharp teeth. And what do we do? We turn tail and crawl back into our self-imposed prisons of comfort. We’re satisfied to live out our lives within those confining walls because we hold ourselves bound by the fear of rejection, the fear of failure, the fear of lack, even the fear of success and the responsibility it brings with it.

I don’t remember exactly when I first read it, but the following quote by Marianne Williamson, spiritual author and lecturer, struck a chord in me that has resonated ever since. “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”[i]

Two decades ago I lost my voice after developing a disease known as “spasmodic dysphonia,” a condition that lasted six grueling years (for those of you who listen to NPR, this is the same disease Diane Rehm suffers from). At that time I’d always wanted to learn how to speak better in public so I could teach, so despite my weak, tremulous voice (or maybe because of my determination to overcome this debilitating ailment), I joined Toastmasters International. I then began to conduct interviews for articles because the non-fiction material I was writing at the time had begun to sell. Then a junior college teacher asked me to teach a class on staying motivated as a writer. Despite sounding like a three-pack-a-day smoker, I stood in front of that room full of adults and delivered my talk. I refused to play small.

Each time I faced my fears—the fear of rejection by family and friends, the fear of talking and sounding like an incoherent idiot, the fear of public speaking, the fear of interviewing people—I grew. And over time I soundly trashed each one of those fears. Goethe once said, “Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.” Overcoming those long-suffered fears was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life, despite the years of pain and suffering. I learned that fears can indeed be overcome, that they can be defeated. Facing those fears head on and moving forward despite them taught me I can do anything I set my mind to, with God’s help and blessing. It’s the same with the fears I’ve had—and still have—about writing.

Even if no one else believes in your writing, believe in it yourself, because when it comes right down to it, that’s all that matters anyway. Joan Lowery Nixon said, “You must believe in yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself and in your ability to succeed, then you can’t expect others to believe in you.”[ii] Why would they?

Frank Herbert wrote about fear in his novel Dune. “Fear is the mind-killer,” he said. And the life killer. And the dream killer.

Marty Goldbeck, a psychologist and former police officer, spoke about fear at the October 1995 Beaumont Golden Triangle Writers Guild conference in Beaumont, Texas. “The thing that weighs us down is our own self,” he said. “What are the limitations that keep us from writing?” Goldbeck also said there are two things determining whether or not we can achieve our dreams. The first is attitude. “If I choose to have a creative, good attitude, my life is limitless,” said Goldbeck. And the second is choice. It’s your choice, every moment of every day, to do the things you want to do. Like the old king said in the introduction to this discussion, the decision is up to you.

 

[i] Williamson, Marianne. A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles”. New York. Harper Collins, 1992. 190.

[ii] http://chichikir.wordpress.com/2012/10/12/there-is-no-one-right-way-to-write/

 

 (Next up: Persistence and Determination Alone are Omnipotent)

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