David C. Hughes, Writer

“For the LORD your God will bless you in all your harvest and in all the work of your hands, and your JOY will be complete." –Deuteronomy 16:15

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God’s Favorite (2014-12-04 Daily)

Mom always liked you best!

–Tommy Smothers

 

I drove the Chevy Traverse east on Airport Freeway through the mid-cities between Dallas and Fort Worth, trying my darndest to keep the big SUV between the lines and doing my best to keep my mama calm.  Light rain exercised the windshield wipers and the brake lights glaring through the streaked glass exercised our patience; we’d left Aledo three hours before Mom and Dad’s flight was scheduled to depart, but the construction, the rain, and the stop-and-go traffic ramped up my mother’s nervousness.  “When will we get out of this?” she asked.

“When we get to airport entrance,” I replied.  I prayed for God to keep us safe while I drove, and also that we’d arrive at the airport in plenty of time for my 73-year-old mom and my 72-year-old dad to make it through security and to their gate without a glitch.  I’d driven to DFW Airport hundreds of times, and I felt confident we’d arrive safely, with time to spare.

After an hour, the traffic opened up like Moses parting the Red Sea, and I accelerated from 20 to 65 and held it there until we approached the toll gates at the airport entrance.  I parked the Traverse and held the umbrella over my mom’s head as we crossed the access road and headed into the terminal.  We embraced, said our “I love you’s” and good-byes, and I watched as Mom and Dad stripped off their coats, removed their liquids and gels, and pushed their trays along the stainless steel conveyor to the x-ray machines.  Being over 65, they didn’t have to take off their shoes.  Thank God for small favors.  They soon merged with the crowd working its way through the security gate, and when I was sure they’d cleared the TSA checkpoint, I hustled back to the car.

The moment I walked through the glass door onto the access road, I saw that, even though it was still raining, the sun was doing its best to push aside the rolling purple clouds and declare its dominance over the morning.  I couldn’t help but smile.  I hurried to the car, texted Mary to let her know I was leaving the airport, and nudged the Traverse back onto DFW’s main access road toward the toll booths.  Three dollars poorer, I emerged from the airport and started for home as the dark clouds wrestled to regain ground lost to the sunshine.

As I followed the exit road from DFW onto Texas 183, I reflected on the days we’d gotten to spend with my parents and my sister as they helped celebrate my 50th birthday party; their presence had put the icing on the cake!  A bit melancholy, I blended into the light traffic as the sun again reasserted itself.  And suddenly I found myself driving through the arch of a rainbow stretching from one side of the highway to the other, bright, thick, brilliant, complete, an Old Testament promise proclaiming itself to a New Testament world.  I could see where both ends kissed the ground, and it was ethereal as the rainbow’s feet slid along the edges of the highway at the same speed as the SUV.  And I choked up.  “Thank you, Jesus,” I cried.  “Thank you.”

In that moment I knew God was assuring me that my parents’ passage back home to Virginia would be safe and peaceful, that my drive would be covered with His Grace, that all was well and would continue to be well, no matter what.  In that instant I felt God’s love, palpable, viable, oh-so-real reach through the windshield in that rainbow’s ROYGBIV, grab me up, and smother kisses all over my face.  And I couldn’t help but think about the times my wife has told me “You’re God’s favorite.  He loves you; He always answers your prayers.”  But you know what?  God has no favorites.  He doesn’t!  He smothers kisses on each and every one of us.  He paints the sky with rainbows, whispers sweet “I love you’s” in our ears, holds our hands, even sings to us!  All He asks is that our hearts, our minds, our souls receive that love and reflect it back to the world and light the Way for the lost.  Like any good Daddy, all He wants is for us to notice His gifts, acknowledge the Giver, and know He is God.

I’d prayed that my family’s flights to Texas would be uneventful.  They’d left Roanoke, Virginia under clear skies, and they’d arrived at DFW Airport early.  Thank You, Jesus.  I’d prayed for good weather for my birthday party as more than 75 folks had RSVP’d affirmative, and Friday, March 21, 2014, the day of my party, had dawned clear, and the temperature had risen to near 80 degrees under sunlit skies.  Temperatures the rest of the weekend remained in the 50’s and 60’s, with off-and-on rain and a stout wind.  Thank You, Jesus.  I’d prayed for a safe return for my sister as she flew back home to be with her family, and she arrived without incident.  Thank You, Jesus.  And I’d prayed for a safe drive, an on-time arrival at DFW, and a safe trip back to Roanoke, Virginia for my parents; we arrived, they arrived.  Thank You, Jesus.

“A new command I give you,” Jesus told His disciples during the Last Supper.  “Love one another.  As I have loved you, so you must love one another.  By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:34-35 NIV®).  As I have love you, Jesus said.  As I LOVE you.  I recently saw a post on Facebook, an excerpt from Jefferson Bethke’s book Jesus>Religion:

 

“I was just lying there, swimming in my own shame and guilt, when this still, small voice whispered into the depths of my soul:

I love you.

I desire you.

I delight in you.

I saw you were going to do that before I went to the cross, and I still went.”

 

He LOVES you more than you can even fathom.  He DESIRES you more than you’ll ever know.  He DELIGHTS in you more than you can even imagine.  And He gave His very life for you so that you can fathom, so that you can know, and so that you can imagine.  “He will take great delight in you,” wrote the prophet Zephaniah, “in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing” (Zephaniah 3:17b NIV).  He’s singing over you right now.  Right now!  You can’t tell me you’re not your Daddy’s favorite . . . .

 

Copyright ©2014 by David C. Hughes

 

100 Blog Posts and the Art of Self-Discipline (2014-10-21 Daily)

Yesterday I spent some time with Chad Michaelis, owner of Vertex Electronics, troubleshooting one of his newest commercial products. After successfully resolving the issue, we decompressed a bit and chatted about the prospect of increasing my hours at Vertex, an opportunity that’s both exciting and nerve-wracking as I’m very protective of my writing time. As we talked, the conversation swung toward the challenges of owning a business. Leaning back in his chair, Chad folded his hands behind his head and looked up at the ceiling. “I’m convinced that the majority of businesses fail because of lack of discipline,” he said.

I nodded. “After I was let go from my job last year,” I told him, “I still get up at 5:00 or 5:30 in the morning, walk the dogs, then go to work. I need that discipline to keep me focused or I wouldn’t get anything done.” For me, organization and self-discipline are second nature, but even so, I’ve found that working from home sometimes takes monumental effort to stay focused and remain on track. Spending hour after hour in my office with my plans on one hand and reality (aka, family life) on the other has managed to crumple my inflexibility and polish my forbearance. But it’s still dang hard! And amazingly rewarding.

A couple weeks ago I posted my 100th blog post, two months after reaching my blissful one-year anniversary with WordPress. In these past 14 months I’ve cranked out and published about 100,000 words on the blog alone—that’s two modern books, or about 1/6th of War and Peace.  That’s self-discipline.  My good friend, Robyn Conley, is a writer, book doctor, and speaker (http://robynconley.com). Before each speaking session, she passes around a small box filled with an assortment of buttons. After each of the participants takes a button, Robyn explains the symbolism: It’s a reminder to keep your “butt on” the chair. Because, for a writer, the button position is the most important position to assume and the most imperative to maintain.

At the moment I have no set writing schedule, just a goal to post at least once a week and to make progress on the six book projects plus the school curricula I’m juggling at the same time. Flexibility has never been my forte, but I’ve found over the years that I actually prefer the freedom to write “organically” as opposed to sticking to a rigid outline and schedule; it keeps my muse much happier. And if my muse is happy, I’m happy. But with greater freedom comes much greater responsibility; no situation will test you more than being turned loose to make a living under your own auspices. It’s sporty but oh so exhilarating. As Chad Michaelis told me yesterday, “No one’s writing me a paycheck.” Our lives are what we make of them, and this writing thing suits me just fine even when the inner engineer wants to do the math on everything, especially the checkbook balance. So I write, I post, I turn the crank with diligence and fearlessness.

Practically every day I plant my butt on the chair and either tap away at the keyboard or write longhand in my journal. Some days I work on a blog post, other days I design power supplies or oscillator circuits, yet other days I sit down with my wife to plan book signings. I’m getting ‘er done. Why do I subject myself to this self-imposed, beautiful torture? As I’ve said before, it’s what I do. It’s what God created me for and I honor and glorify Him by walking obediently in my calling. I choose to write. I have to write! And 100 blog posts and two published books later, I’ve found that I write “despite.” Despite the mornings I’m wrapped in apathy and discouragement, despite the days my muse decides to sleep in and not show up for work, despite the weeks nothing I’ve set out to do gets done. With purpose and determination, it happens.

I’ve managed to generate and upload 100 blog posts with the hope and prayer that something I’ve written will touch someone’s life for the better. Like yesterday, when our dear friend Bridget Brooks posted the following on Facebook, regarding The Epiphany of Joy: “‘I know this will be a lifelong adventure, a continuous education, and a reminder that Joy is a gift planted in me by the Spirit of God. I need to remember to unwrap that gift and receive it daily in my heart.’ – David C. Hughes. I’m just getting started and already know what a blessing this book will be!!!! Thank you for your obedience.” Now that’s what I’m talkin’ about!

“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid,” the Apostle Paul wrote in his second letter to Timothy, “but gives us power, love and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7 NIV®). This is a verse Mary and I quote to Hannah when she tells us she’s scared of something, but how often I’ve whispered this scripture to myself, reminding myself that, first and foremost, the Spirit of God empowers us to walk in our callings with self-discipline.

I left Chad Michaelis’ office last night with a renewed sense of destiny as I remembered God’s faithfulness and all the “coincidences” I’ve experienced in my relationship with him, his family, and with his company. God created this opportunity to work for Chad as a demonstration of His continuous provision, confirmation I’m walking in my giftedness. By faith I continue to step out despite the fear of failure. In love I accept the challenge, knowing God will guide my every step. By the Spirit we are all empowered, and by self-discipline we all proceed. As the Apostle Paul reminded us in his letter to the Romans: “What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? In all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us” (Romans 8:31, 37 NIV®).

Now to conquer the next electronic design challenge. And the next 100 blog posts!

 

 (NOTE: Starting next week I plan to post a six-part series on motivation for writers. Until then, many blessings!)

Copyright ©2014 by David C. Hughes

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